Monday, January 20, 2014

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What compels a man to lie? pride?

What compels a man to lie his other half? Lust for another? Greed for something more? What did it take to keep that lie going, whatever is it that can bring a man to hurt the girl who loves him whole?

How would you choose your ending, to leave the man you love that chose deceit over you, or would you rather continue to have him still, believe the series of lies he feeds because you couldn't bear to leave him?
You can say I'm in no position to judge as I've yet to meet someone I fall head over heels in love with. But with a clear head I cannot find any logical reason to stay for someone whose heart is long gone. Is this the kind of love people should settle for?

I know I'm unable to talk sense into a woman in love, but it breaks my heart just as much to see someone dear willing to break herself little by little choosing the wrong kind of love. It angers me to see how much she would do for the man who chose to disrespect her trust. And it pains me even more that I'm this helpless to making her see what's right, and what's not.

What a heavy heart for a Monday.

xx
Posted by Desiree Tay at 8:55 PM

8 comments:

  1. Jolene ZhouJanuary 21, 2014 at 12:15 AM

    This is so well written. I'm impressed~

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    1. Desiree TayJanuary 22, 2014 at 5:27 PM

      But I iz sho sad..

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    2. AnonymousJanuary 23, 2014 at 11:30 PM

      How true.

      There's a recent quote that goes, "You choose the love you think you deserve". if she think she is only worthy of so much then end of the day, its still her choice. This amount will be how little she sees herself, which in turn,is the even sadder truth.

      Tell your friend to respect herself and people around her that truly loves her.and stop seeking for such pathetic way of validation like trying so hard to be someone she isn't.

      xx

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    3. Desiree TayFebruary 6, 2014 at 5:54 PM

      She just chose to take the easy way out instead of facing the cruel truth, I wished she'd see that she deserves much more better than this..

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  2. pLJanuary 25, 2014 at 2:32 AM

    Men lie because they don't want to get caught doing something they shouldn't have.
    Men lie because we chose to look the other way and let them get away with the lie.

    I'm sorry that your friend is going through this, and you're going through it with her. It's difficult, but be there for her regardless of her decision. She is your priority. Be her support, her listening ear, and provide her strength. One day she will realize she has to go, and you will be there to help her leave, and help her get rid of her baggage.

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    1. Desiree TayFebruary 6, 2014 at 5:59 PM

      Yep I do not approve of this unhealthy r/s but if it what she wants, I'll stand by her. I have her back always.
      Why are women in love oh so foolish...

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  3. AnonymousFebruary 12, 2014 at 1:27 AM

    So, which of your friend is going through this? How does the guy and the girl (your friend) still attend the many gatherings together as a couple. The guy is pretty shameless right? Everyone knows his deeds and misdemeanors. And the girl, not embarrassing to have to pretend that she is happy when everyone knows of her cowardly choice.

    Shameless much?

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    1. Desiree TayFebruary 12, 2014 at 5:51 PM

      Woah tone it down a notch... I've already came to terms with her decison so it's neither embarrassing nor would I call it a cowardly choice, it may not be right but it's brave of her to choose to place her trust back on someone who did not cherish it. I just hope the guy treasures this second chance..

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